Sahih Muslim Book 4, Hadith Number 2037.

Chapter : The dead body is punished for the lamentation of his family.

Umm ‘Atiyya reported that the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) took pledge from us (including this promise) that we would not lament. Only five amongst us fulfilled the promise, and one of them (who fulfilled the promise) was Umm Sulaim.